YOu are very late here in responding to a problematic situation. You must realize that for every day you wait you increase the losses that may be taking place here. Get an estates litigation attorney immediately. You may need to bring an action for a complete and immediate accounting, a surcharge action and an action for the executor's removal for cause. For removal for cause, please see my article entitled Pennsylvania Probate: Removal of Personal Representative Under PA Estates and Fiduciary Code at the following link: http://www.sjfpc.com/Probate_Removal_Executor_Trustee_PA_Probate_law.html Even though this relates to PA law most states have similar rules.
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Your next step needs to be locating and retaining a probate litigator in the state where the trust is being administered. You need to have your own attorney review the trust, then demand an immediate accounting from the executor. Do not delay, you have already given eight months away.
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You absolutely need to hire a probate litigator ASAP. Save all of your correspondence with the executor. The longer you wait, the more difficult it will be to recover the misappropriated funds.