Employers may not discriminate based on race, gender, religion or national origin. There is no prohibition against discrimination against those with low incomes, so unless you think her comments are really arising out of assumptions she's making about your race, gender, religion, or national origin, it's not discrimination. To prove a discrimination claim, you need fairly clear evidence that what the employer did was because of your race, gender, etc. and not for some other reason. You may want to contact a lawyer to discuss your situation in greater detail.
You might not have legal claims against your employer, but you might have it against her. If you know why she is treating you like this, that may provide information as to potentially unlawful motive. I would suggest raising the matter with her superiors.
Also, you have a right to privacy. Divulging your pay status may be in violation of that.
Jay M. Wolman
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