You said the letter was not falsely representing the facts. So there is no libel.
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No one can say without the exact wording of the letter.
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You need to immediately consult with a family law specialist. Use the AVVO search tool to find someone in your area. I can appreciate your frustration and would also recommend that you ask your attorney about a private investigator who might be able to get you evidence to support your claims, be careful not to violate any court orders. Good Luck.
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