She does not want him to serve time do to the fact of there young child but she does what him to get counseling for his angry that has gone up in the last year do to personal problems. They have the NCO ( for 6 months) in place by the judge can that be up lifted do to the fact that she is not scared for her life? And does the court start a divorce process in this 6 months even though the victim does not want a divorce just help?she did not get a protection order against him and this is his first time being arrested for this. he was only arrested one other time but for a miss understanding on his license. if she does not want to testify against her husband will the police. the only harm done to her body were scratches on the neck.