The order is valid upon when it is made. Not every violation nullifies an order or even has a consequence. Some law and rules have no enforcement mechanism. Also there is a rebuttable presumption when there is a proof of service the documents were served.
Also FL-191 has no bearing on the validity.
I think the best thing to do is work on a deal because the judge probably won't agree with you.
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