Yes, spanking is exactly what "corporal punishment" means. You should consider filing a proceeding for in Family Court violation of the custody order, as well as the provision concerning the co-sleeping. You may also want to file for an order of protection against the father and institute a Child Protective Services proceeding for abuse if the violation of the custody order was willful and knowing or the conditions or actions of the father could constitute child abuse. You may also want to seek supervised visitation.
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Spanking is coporal punishment and if what the children say is true then the father has violated. You need to file a motion with the court and also seek advice of an attorney as to whether you should involve child protective services. Contact your attorney.
First, you need to hire an attorney. Then you need to file an emergency order to show cause to suspend visitation until such time as the court can resolve these issues.
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