Because this forum is for legal questions, I can only tell you that it is not illegal to do so. Having said that, I have absolutely no idea what sort of answer you might get to the same question posed to a social worker, minister or mental health professional.
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That is fine. It is not illegal. However, you want to make sure that the mother is OK with it as well as your wife.
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I like Mr. Leroi's viewpoint here. I agree with him completely. Of course, dare I ask how your inability to communicate directly with this woman is impacting your child? I hope that's smooth!!
In no way am I offering you legal advice, and in no way has my comment created an attorney-client relationship. You are not to rely upon my note above in any way, but insted need to sit down with counsel and share all relevant facts before receiving fully-informed legal advice. If you want to be completely sure of your rights, you must sit down with an experienced criminal defense attorney to be fully aware of your rights.
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