You need to consult with an expereinced attorney and have him/her review the file and your objectives. This forum can not address this matter, it is too complicated. Good luck in locating an attorney to advise you.
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You are 72, trapped in a corrupt jurisdiction, and you don't want to be brutalized? In that case, you need to be seeking your legal analysis and advice by a far more risk-averse and comprehensive method than can be available to you in a free Q and A on the internet. Talk with a lawyer asap.
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Depends on what you mean by 'safe'.
Contact a civil rights attorney in a jurisdiction sufficiently far from your county to be outside the influence if this family.
FWIW, litigation is a brutal, unpleasant, stressful series of actions and maneuvers; you cannot expect to fight the good fight without going through further 'brutalization'.
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