I also suggest you look seriously at why you two got divorced in the first place and then why you want to reconcile. This seems like it might be a rocky relationship. In any event, there may be a way to vacate the judgment, but you do need to speak to an experienced family law attorney.
Brian S. Karpe, Esq. (860) 242-2221 Note: This response DOES NOT constitute legal advice and therefore no specific action should be taken in reliance thereon. No attorney-client relationship is created through this response. You should speak to an licensed attorney in your state who is competent to answer your question before taking any action with regard to this question.
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