1) Unless you dismiss the case or the court does, the parenting agreement will probably terminate on its own terms.
2) You can normally stall a divorce case by not having anything set and telling the lawyers you do not want to set anything. Some courts do not like this, and will set dates where someone has to go and give 'good cause' as to why the Court shouldn't dismiss the case itself.
3) Not many, but I've seen it happen. Probably 95% end up divorced. If that is what you want to do, you need to address the underlying problems, probably through marriage counseling.
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I've had many clients ask me if they can put their divorce on "hold." The answer is "Not really." You will still have to DISMISS the divorce action in order to stay married. Thus, the agreement will no longer be legally binding since it was never made final. However, you can always save a copy of it to go by if things don't work out. This could save you and your spouse time and money in any future negotiations. The percentage of people that do this and end up divorcing again is actually pretty high. These tend to be the "roller coaster" type relationships.
If I am understanding you correctly, you have signed a Separation Agreement, and had it approved by the Court and a Judgment Nisi entered. If that is the case, the only way to stop it would be to file to vacate the Nisi Judgment and ask for a stay of proceeding while you attempt to reconcile with your wife.
You could also file a Motion to make the parenting plan provisions of your Separation Agreement a Temporary Order of the Court during the period of time this is successful. If you do nothing but move to vacate the Judgment Nisi before it becomes absolute, your parenting agreement would not be in place.
As for your third question, I cannot give you an exact number but I can tell you in my experience that such attempts at reconciliation are more often unsuccessful. You could permit the divorce to become final so that your rights are preserved and if things work out, you could get married again.
Good luck, however you proceed.
Disclaimer: The above answer does not constitute legal advice nor does it establish an attorney-client relationship between the author of the original post and Attorney Schutzbank. It is intended for information purposes. For more information please visit my web site at berid-schutzbank.com. Good luck.
If you decide to stay together, you can look into a "marital agreement," which is an agreement between married parties who are not divorcing now but want to outline their rights and obligations in the event of an eventual divorce. This will involve stopping your divorce as others have explained above, in addition to changing the character of your draft agreement.
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