Hire a lawyer today if you want to try to modify. What does your child's pediatrician say about the sadness/regression after visits?
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Going with the AG's office is the free route, but as you've found it, it isn't always the best route. The AG represents the state, not you, or your best interests. You are on a very tight timeline now. Speak with a local family law attorney ASAP about your options and the possibility of a modification. Best of luck to you and your little one.
Use the Find a Lawyer tab at the top of the page to locate an attorney in your area. You may be able to modify the order but this is not something I suggest you try without an attorney. Based on the small amount of time that has passed, your reasons for modifying so soon may be extremely limited. Talk to an attorney as soon as possible so you can discuss your case in more detail and your options. Best of Luck.
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