I am unsure of how the child came to live with you, but you may consider filing a private deprivation action in the Juvenile Court of which ever county you live in, Rockdale or Newton. When you file a private deprivation action you tell the court what is going on with the parents - both parents, not just her, your son as well. You tell the court that they have not provide support for the child if they have not. You tell the court that they have not provided shelter for the child if they have not. If they are using drugs and or abusing alcohol, you tell that too. You are in a special class of folks that the court looks to for assistance regarding children whose parents are operating like what you described. The court is concerned with what is best for the child, as you express you are to, so take the matter to the Juvenile Court and protect the child. The court will also give the child an advocate who can act on behalf of the child and who knows the law. You may need to get an attorney of your own, but give this some consideration.
This information is of a general nature and is not intended to be relied upon as legal advise. You are encouraged to contact and discuss your matter with an experienced attorney to more specifically address your legal needs.
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