Your employment and subsequent termination are not matters designated as confidential by the law. Unless you were defamed by a false report that causes you damages, the president of the college did not act unlawfully in reaching out and communicating with your pastor. Of course it was officious, overbearing, self-important and intrusive, and you have every right to be offended and angry. But it was not unlawful.
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