It generally depends on what they did, and how they did it. You should give the facts to your Attorney.
We give free general concepts to be helpful, but you should give ALL your facts to a licensed Attorney in your state before you RELY upon any legal advice.
Huh? If the insurance company's lawyer called you or your family probing for info, and if you have your own lawyer, then that was probably unethical. But from your post I can't understand exactly who did what.
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If you have an attorney then you need to tell them about this ASAP.
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If you have a lawyer, ask your lawyer.
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