Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now and he is 36 years old. Could he get in serious trouble dating me if there is no sex? We have never had sex and do not plan to anytime soon. All we really do is hug and kiss...My parents know and yes they frown upon it but they don't want to get in trouble for allowing it.
You're dating someone with pedophilic tendencies. Any 36 year old man attracted to a 15 year old girl is either perverted, psychiatrically troubled, or is otherwise in need of extreme intervention. Him making out with you or touching you at all could easily be molestation in many jurisdictions. You need to end this with him immediately. It is grossly inappropriate on multiple levels.
Hugging and kissing (not groping, kissing) are not illegal.
Not wise, either.
If I were advising the 36-year-old, my advice, based on years of experience, would be to keep away from anything more than holding hands or a light kiss until you were at least age 21. I have seen fine young men (and women) end up with time in jail or prison because of consensual relationships.
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Your description meets the definition and/or criteria for action by a district attorney to be very, very possible. It is not a wise relationship, simply because of maturity, age of consent and various cultural assumptions in North America not common in all other cultures. There is good advise in the answers by others. Good luck.
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