I actually tried to call where she used to live, but her brother answered and told me she doesn't live there anymore. I then asked if there he knew of anything I could use to contact her with. He eventually gave me an e-mail address of hers that he had. The e-mail address I had for her doesn't work anymore. If I were to contact her at the new e-mail address, would that be harassment? I really miss her, and want to try to make amends and be friend, but I want to make sure it would be legal, and not considered harassment. Plus, I don't want to come off as a stalker or anything like that. Oh, and we were together for 3 years, so it's not like it was just a quick fling or something like that.It's also her birthday, and I wanted to wish her a happy birthday.