You get the records first and then do the deposition if you have issues with what is provided. If your lawyer wants to do the deposition first I have serious questions about his conduct of the case. Typically you can only do a deposition one time. There is such a thing as running up fees by lawyers. If your ex is self employed it can be difficult to determine if he is hiding income. What else has he done to make you think he is horrible?
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