My spouse moved to the west coast and we had court the judge was in favor with me having physical custody but my spouse refused so the case was adjourned, she’s a woman that makes drama situations so I’m waiting until court before I travel to her with our son. I’ve beem a single for about 4 months now and she’s now returning to New York demanding . Should I wait for the judge ruling before doing anything outside of the court order or am I wrong to keep him until the final decision ?
Your recitation of your facts is not clear, but in any case, always follow the court's order to the letter. If the order grants access, you must provide access or you will lose custody.
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You need to follow the court order otherwise you can lose custody.
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You need to follow court orders. You also can't alienate your child from the other parent. Please speak with your attorney about how to proceed.
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It's not so much that it's "against the law," it's more that interference with the non-custodial parent's relationship with the child is a factor the court may consider in the ultimate custody trial. Thus, whether you deviate from the current order or not would take an assessment of numerous factors, including age of child, extent of relationship between her & child, etc. Schedule a consult with a Bronx Child Custody attorney for a full assessment.
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