Hello and I am sorry for the loss of your father. Your question cannot be answered without reviewing the engagement letter between the lawyer involved in the estate, and his or her clients. This engagement letter will spell out exactly who the lawyer represents, and in what capacity he represents them (as individuals, as executors, as beneficiaries). When representing co-executors, it is best to represent only the co-executors in their capacity as co-executors (and not as beneficiaries); and not represent: the estate, beneficiaries of the estate, or creditors of the estate. If a beneficiary came to my office stating that my client(s) was not doing something that they (as beneficiaries of the estate) thought the executors should do, I would not give legal advice to that beneficiary and suggest they (the non-executor beneficiaries) hire an independent (outside) probate attorney to help them. “Free” advice given to a non-client is always a risky thing to do and often fraught with landmines. Take care and good luck to all of you.
Wow... You all need to get your own attorneys, if what you say is true. I would think there is a conflict there. I do know that your interests are being best served, so find independent counsel, FAST!
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Your title and your question don't exactly match up. Is it a conflict for your sister to use the same attorney as your father did when he was alive? Not by itself, no. But whether or not the attorney has some conflict hardly addresses your actual concerns. "Conflict of interest" are not magic words that make your sister live up to her legal obligations.
You've asked another party's attorney for something and he has refused. What exactly did you expect? He works for your sister. Not for you.
It's time to stop asking for free insight, and hire an attorney that represents your interests. All of the well-thought responses you gain here are meaningless without your own representation.
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