Unfortunately, that is true. Section 14-10-115(2)(a), Colorado Revised Statutes provides as follows: "In a proceeding for dissolution of marriage, legal separation, maintenance, or child support, the court may order either or both parents owing a duty of support to a child of the marriage to pay an amount reasonable or necessary for the child's support and may order an amount determined to be reasonable under the circumstances for a time period that occurred after the date of the parties' physical separation or the filing of the petition or service upon the respondent, whichever date is latest, and prior to the entry of the support order, without regard to marital misconduct."
You are wrong, by the way, when you say you could not divorce him because you could not find him. If you filed a divorce case and satisfied the court that you were unable to find him after making reasonable effort to do so, the court would have allowed you to serve him by publication in a local newspaper.
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Mr. Geil is absolutely correct. Retroactive child support is not available in divorce prior to the date of filing. You could have filed for divorce even without being able to locate your husband, but because you have remained married, the Court will only be able to address issues from the divorce filing forward. Unfortunately, a lot of negative things can happen when parties physically separate but take no action to actually dissolve the marriage until years later.
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