You need to hire private counsel who is experienced in collecting child support from out of state obligors. Child support enforecmeet just doesn't have the ability to handle the copmplex cases.
Hire an attorney.
I question how you know so much about his banking but don't even know his address.
Yes, you can go after the GF's assets to collect support (on these facts).
Again, hire an attorney.
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