You cannot be charged w/rape without sex and you would not be charged, he would be.
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You can be if you are or have been involved sexually with him. You should speak to an attorney privately since public statements posted on this site can be used against you.
I agree with the answers of my colleagues, but would add that sex is not just defined as intercourse. Dating without any type of sexual activity is not a crime.
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You can not be charged with Rape for visiting someone in jail. Unless there is some evidence that you are sexually active there can be no rape charge. It sounds based on the ages you post, that it would be misdemeanor charges and not felony rape charges anyway because of the ages.
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