We divorced in Hawaii and He lives in Tennessee and I live in Virginia. They said that I would have to get a QDRO from hawaii not here and don't know if after 6 years I can get one. When I called DFAS they said just to send the divorce papers and the DD293 so I did. Will they come back and ask for the QDRO. My ex retired in January and then told me that I would get share that I didn't have to do anything so He will get 3 months of the whole retirement. Does the paper work take 90 days????
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