Based on your description, the best course of action for you would be to have a proper consultation with an immigration attorney.
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According to the facts you give, the petition was for your father. As he did not immigrate, you too cannot immigrate based on that petition.
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It is probably too late to do anything about this.
(213) 394-4554 x0 Mr. Shusterman is a former INS Trial Attorney (1976-82) with over 35 years of immigration experience. His response to your question is general in nature, as not all the facts are known to him. You should retain an attorney experienced in immigration law to review all the facts in your case in order to receive advice specific to your case. Mr. Shusterman's statement above does not create an attorney/client relationship.
It would be best if you contacted an Immigration Attorney in your area to do a full consultation with you so that the attorney can determine what options, if any, are available to you. Based on your description, there are follow up questions that an Immigration Attorney would have to ask to make sure there are no important facts that are left out. Hope this helps.