RCW 9.73.030 (Intercepting, recording, or divulging private communication – Consent required – Exceptions) provides:
(1) Except as otherwise provided in this chapter, it shall be unlawful for any individual, partnership, corporation, association, or the state of Washington, its agencies, and political subdivisions to intercept, or record any:
(b) Private conversation, by any device electronic or otherwise designed to record or transmit such conversation regardless how the device is powered or actuated without first obtaining the consent of all the persons engaged in the conversation.
The statutes are here: http://apps.leg.wa.gov/RCW/default.aspx?cite=9.73 .
Violators of the statutes can end up in jail. See RCW 9.73.080 (Penalties).
You may want to review your facts and options with an attorney.
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I believe Washington like Illinois and California's laws prohibits the recording of "confidential communications" unless all parties to the conversation consent.
See my Legal Guide Recording Conversations in Illinois
You need a lawyer because I do not practice in WA (I am in Chicago, IL). Check with a lawyer in your locale to discuss more of the details. Twelve states like Illinois require all party consent to record.
Good luck to you.
Again, check with a lawyer in your locale.
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