Alabama law does not designate any age wherein a child can choose where he or she lives. The court is always bound by the best interests of the child when it determines who is going to have custody. If your friend has not hired an attorney to represent him in his divorce, he needs to do so an soon as possible.
I was reading your question and can not speak for Alabama law, but do agree that relying on a child's decision is NOT the way your friend should bank. Hire an attorney.
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