If you're looking for someone to argue a motion / try the case, you should be able to find an attorney who will work on a "limited representation" basis so long as you're willing to sign a waiver. But unless you literally just want "stand-by counsel" (like you sometimes see in criminal cases when a defendant represents himself pro se; an attorney to sit at the table and assist with evidence issues, etc) whoever it is will usually need a least a few hours before court to review your case, the pleadings, etc.
You don't say what County the case is in, though.
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You may request that the judge order your ex to pay attorney fees "pendent lite". You will need to show that he is able to financially pay for this, that you can't afford it and that there is no bad faith on your part. Custody cases are among the most difficult.
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