Is this Multnomah County? The court will often require a bond unless there was a will that specifically waived the bond. The court is operating from the point of view of not knowing you or the situation and just trying to be cautious. It is not just other heirs that the court is trying to protect, but also creditors of the estate that have the right to be paid. So the fact that you are the only heir is not the only consideration.
You don't have to put up with an attorney that you don't like or who is not answering your questions satisfactorily. But do be aware that if you fire this attorney they still have the right to petition the court for their attorney fees that are going to come out of the assets of the estate - then your new attorney will do the same thing.
If you want to know what was filed in the court - go down to the court house and look at the file. It's a public record that anyone can look at and for a small cost you can get copies of all the documents in the file.
Anyone can be appointed as the Personal Rep. The court probably is willing to waive a bond requirement for your attorney because your attorney has already under gone a background check (including having their finger prints sent to the FBI) in order to get their licenses to practice law, they are subject to supervision by the Oregon State Bar, and they are insured for any malpractice. But here is the law on the list of folks the court would consider as PR in order of priority: http://www.oregonlaws.org/ors/113.085. As a practical matter, once a PR is appointed it will require a hearing with the court to remove them and appoint someone else. Keep in mind that fighting about this will probably increase the amount of time your attorney ends up billing you and the estate.
So I don't think there is a problem with what your attorney is doing from a legal stand point. I do think that your attorney is lacking in their relationship with you and not providing you with the level of communication that you need to feel comfortable. But that might also help keep the bill down. I would ask your attorney to provide an accounting to you of the time they have spent so far and their fee to date. What you really need to be on the look for is an attorney that doesn't communicate adequately with you and runs up your bill and then you find out at the end of the probate when it's too late to object.
Also be aware that depending on the situation a probate may not have been necessary. I see less experienced attorneys all the time recommending probate when it was needed. Probate does have a lot of paperwork involved and can generate a nice fee for attorneys and their clients are sort of stuck paying the fee since all the property in the estate is held up until they do pay. But probate can also be a good thing or a necessary evil, so I don't want to suggest that your attorney is wrong - I just don't know at this point. So do the steps I have outlined: 1. Get a copy of the court file yourself. 2. Ask your attorney for a statement of time and fees to date. 3. If you stay with this attorney help them as much as possible to gather information and pay bills and debts and keep track of details so that your bill is reduced. 4. If you don't want to work with this attorney fire them and hire someone else but understand that this will increase your overall bill as you will have to pay both attorneys for the work they do or have done out of the estate. (You have to decide if it's worth it.) http://www.portlandlegalservices.com
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