I do not understand your question here.
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If you are married to the alleged victim, then the State may be unable to compel him/her to testify. Since it is a felony, you are entitled to a preliminary hearing, where the State is required to show probably cause that a crime was committed and that you committed it. If the State is unable to meet this burden due to the victim refusing to testify or another reason, then the court should dismiss the charges. However, if there is independent evidence of a crime based on other witnesses or incriminating statement that you made then the State may have enough for preliminary hearing. Additionally, if the victim made statements to another person the State may attempt to admit that hearsay evidence, which under some circumstances may be allowed. It is a very complex issue because many different things could come up, so it is important to have a good and experienced attorney.