I pay $650 a month to my ex wife in NYS. I am ordered to hold medical and dental through my employer, I am also ordered through our divorce to pay 50% uninsured medical and dental bills. My ex wife also chose to hold dental insurance, I am primary holder. Now my 15 year old daughter needs extensive dental work she has 18 teeth that are affected by cavities, My insurance pays 80% of silver fillings up to $1200. If she gets silver fillings I figure it would be about $200 each uninsured if she gets white we are looking at $2500 each uninsured. Do I have to pay for white fillings or will the court say she could get silver? I have joint custody, and support 2 other families, I don't have that extra around. Ex wife also wants to get her 10 veneers $10,000 do I have to pay have for that.