I'm involved in a breach of contract suit in NY. We filed a motion to dismiss. Opposing party now contacted us with a request to extend deadline to 3 weeks, when the original deadline is this monday. Opposing party says that if we do not grant it, they will write the court requesting it. Should we grant it? should we just let them contact the courts? of course, the more time they have the better their answer can be, so it's not something we'd prefer to grant at all.