The date of separation for purposes of getting a divorce is the date the spouses separate with he intention of at least one of them not to resume the relationship. A written agreement is not necessary, nor do you have to both agree to be separated. The act of staying apart with the intent of one of you to stay separated is enough. Based on the facts indicated, the separation occurred two years ago.
In order to obtain an absolute divorce in North Carolina, you must be physically separated (maintain separate residences) for at least one year and one day, with the intent to end the marital relationship. The "clock" would start ticking from there. In addition, either husband or wife must be a resident of NC for at least 6 months before the divorce action is filed.
Often times people confuse a separation agreement with a legal separation so it isn't clear exactly what you mean by a legal separation, however,either way, the date to look at for a divorce is when husband or wife moved to a new address with the intent to end the marital relationship.
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You've been given good answers about the law on separation - but you need to consider more than that. If there are children or property interests at stake you would be well advised to consult a local attorney and discuss the case in detail.
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