I'm trying to show the judge that she allows a person with multiple convictions for robbing senior citizens causing bodily harm , has a domestic violence conviction , heroin arrests etc . I will be getting his record from the state , but I don't know if it will help my visitation petition . Her lawyer cooked me in a deposition , where im accused of hitting mom , although i never did , he got me to say it was possible . I have no history of violence , but no lawyer either . I'm as uncomfortable with her boyfriend as Mom is with me . Also , we have been heard and I have a temp . sup . vis . order . I'm I passed discovery phase ?(Am I passed) dicovery phase? Im thinking of amending petition a second time to include that info. I also want her to admit in admissions that she has been living with this guy since 2009 for grounds to teminate child support. Will terminating child support adversly affect my visitation petition? They both have jobs and my trade is slow, i cant quite make the payments now, but will catch up this summer? Will that be used against me at the visitaion hearing? I'm prepared to say Adam Lanza's mom (sandy hook) got 300k a year , did that make her a good mother?