You should retain counsel at this point to properly advise you. Based on the nature of the circumstances you've presented, you have some significant issues that need to be reviewed by a skilled attorney. Additionally, there are likely to be facts that you have not presented that are relevant to the determination as to your best interest. You may be eligible for some VAWA benefits. Please don't wait nor spare expense. Your safety and your rights have no price and should be tended to immediately.
Need more facts. Based on the limited information you may be eligible for VAWA which would allow you to apply for your green card without your husband. However you would need to show either physical or mental abuse. I strongly encourage you to consult an attorney.
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