It sounds like the child support you are paying was established through the Department of Revenue. If I am correct you need to file a Petition to Establish Paternity and Related Relief. This will allow you to obtain a Parenting Plan which governs you and the mother's relationship in regards to the children, including but not limited to parental responsibility and time-sharing. The best thing you can do is consult with and retain an experienced family law attorney. I am located in the Brandon area and I am available for free initial consultations. 813-374-0353
For the second child, you will need to file a Petition to Determine Paternity. Once your paternity is established, you can ask the court to order a Parenting Plan that includes time-sharing.
Were you married to the mother? (So, there is a Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage laying out child custody & support?). I'm guessing "no" just from your statements. (And, I'm wondering if here are two different mothers being discussed here). In any case, if the child support is the only thing that has been court ordered and it is through the Department of Revenue, you are going to have to file a Petition to Establish Paternity so that you can hash out the child custoday issues. You should consider hiring an attorney in your area who can get the child support order combined with the paternity judgement so everything can be in one place.
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You have to file your petition with the court to get the court to approve your request. Contact my office for free consultation 727-446-7659.
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