I see that you have posted several questions on this forum relating to the house in your case. You should consult with an experienced divorce attorney. There are many factors which affect who is ordered to pay for the house, selling the house, etc. Your questions cannot be answered without looking at all of those things.
There is no way to know based on this question enough information to really answer this but if you are living there, it isn't unusual particularly if you want to keep the house. Keep in mind that this is a temporary order not the final one. If you want to appeal the court commissioner's decision you may do so. Either way it sounds as if you need an attorney.
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There are a number of good divorce lawyers in the LaCrosse area. You should be talking, in person to one of them.
Divorce is very much a tailor-made court case. It is not one-size-fits all. There is no such thing as a "common" decision; everything depends on the facts in your lives. I know this situation is troubling you but there is no way a lawyer reading your questions online can answer them in a way that will give you the knowledge you need to proceed.
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