I just turned 18 and my ex girlfriend is my bestfriend her mom knew we used to date when I was 17 my bestfriend is 17. Her mom doesn't like gays so she doesn't want me to be friends with her daughter. Her duaghter is still in love with me and I am still in love with but we have refrained from having a relationship because of her mom. I have never hurt her daughter in anyway and her daughter does not want this restraining order against me.
You will need to hire an attorney to prepare your case to be presented at the restraining order hearing. These are like mini trials where evidence and witnesses are presented and the court makes a decision.
While you *can* defend against this yourself, having an attorney greatly increases the chance the order won't be granted against you.
It is up to the person who is seeking the restraining order to prove it is necessary. Often an attorney can spot weaknesses in their request.
If it is granted, they potentially have tremendous power over you. Any violation and they can call the police, leading to criminal charges and further issues. This is why trying to have one granted is worth getting an attorney.
The above answer is for general information only and is based on the information you posted. Every case is fact dependent, so to get a thorough analysis of your situation, you will need to consult face to face with an attorney licensed to practice in the jurisdiction where the incident took place. Do not conclusively rely on any information posted online when deciding what to do about your case.
If I were representing you I might subpoena the daughter. You will do best with a local attorney helping you. Make sure that the order is only until the daughter reaches the age of 18 if it is issued.
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This is not a question that can be answered over the internet. An attorney will need to review the paperwork filed on the case and then speak with you. Fighting a restraining order involves a court hearing. You should find an attorney to assist you with this.
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