After several missed visits (make sure you carefully document all the missed visits in writing, in a journal or log or something like that), you should file a Motion with the Court requesting that his supervised time be suspended due to the father's non-compliance, and the extremely negative impact it has on the child (as to the father's missed visits). As a parent myself, I am truly sorry you and your child are going through this. I wish you all the best of luck. Warmest regards, Matt Catchick.
If there is no supervisor, you have no obligation to bring the child. Be sure to document and if this pattern continues, file action seeking suspension of parenting time. Argue that the pattern of failed visits is disruptive to and not in the child's best interests.
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