My exhusband/ my daughter's birth father has no rights to her. I have no idea where he is or how to contact him. He has been gone since she was 1month old and she has no idea who he is. My Fiance (matt) has been her daddy since she was 4months old. Besides myself he has been the only one to love & care & finacially support her. My daughter loves Matt her daddy more than anything she is 2 yrs now. He is all she knows. He wants & one day will legally adopt her. My question/ concern is until he can legally adopt her what if something bad were to happen to me? She has no grandparents or other family. I want to make sure she goes to her daddy Matt and not the state.