Only if the answer to the question pertains to a bonafide duty of the job, e.g., if you are applying to be a clergyman or work for a religious employer in a denomination that does not recognize homosexuality as a valid lifestyle. For the position you described it does not appear to be a valid bonfire condition of employment and may be unlawful discrimination against you based on a perception of your sexual orientation. It does not sound like he is declining to hire you because you are or are not gay, rather that he demands complete honesty. To really analyze this situation more details are necessary. I recommend that you consult an attorney in California that deals with sexual orientation discrimination. in your area.
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No, it is not legal.
It is illegal in California to ask questions that are not job related. Sexual orientation is not job-related. It is furthermore illegal to refuse to hire someone because that person did not want to answer a non-job related inquiry. The Fair Employment & Housing Act ("FEHA") and its regulations prohibit all of these things.
If you believe that you have been denied a job because of a non-job related inquiry, and you decide that you want to take action, make sure to do so within your statute of limitations, or your rights may be lost forever.
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Craig T. Byrnes
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