Amigo, you'll be much better off if you get yourself to spend some of your hard earned dollars and get yourself a real "abogado de inmigracciom" (make sure you see his/her license to practice law, though..)
You are obviously very confused even with the simplest step, how to get married.. I can only imagine how you will do woth all the immigration related paperwork you'll have to fill out & submit. Any mistake or omission will have the effect of setting your case back for years and could even have the effect of getting you deported.. Consider spending some money on a real immigration lawyer an investment .. On your future in Norte America!
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Step one to fixing this situation is to have a real, in-person consultation with a licensed immigration lawyer. There are many very good immigration lawyers in the Boston area.
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You have many very valid questions, and this is exactly the reason people go to experienced immigration lawyers, so that they can get all of the proper answers. For that reason, I also recommend that you speak with an experienced immigration lawyer who will explain the entire process to you.
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