If you leave your home for one night and then return it would not be abandonment, nor would that likely be a reason to have you removed from the house taken, by itself. In order to be removed from the house, your spouse would have to file a motion to have exclusive use and occupancy of the marital home if the situation is intolerable at home; or apply for a restraining order. Also, sometimes it just makes sense for one person to move out.
Otherwise, I would suggest that if you are going to stay outside the home for a night, then you should leave a number where she can reach you if there is an emergency. A cell number should suffice.
I am not sure how the piece of paper information relates to your question, and you probably have a number of other issues that you should discuss with an attorney.
It is usually a good idea to meet with an experienced divorce lawyer early on in the process, then you can get some actual advice. It is difficult to answer this question without knowing more details, etc.