I have a 5 year old daughter. Her father and I have been separated for over 3 years. In that time he has been in and out of her life, just seeing her when its convenient to his schedule. He also would never help us out financially. I filed for child support this January 2012 and he never disputed it so I won by default. I am supposed to be receiving my first check this month of $505/month. Now because he never disputed it, doesn't want this money to be taken out of his check every month and wants to go to mediation to see if they can take this order away. Can they do that? Because I know he will never pay me on his own. What can be accomplished in mediation?