What is my right as a wife if my husband was dishonest to me regarding his credit card... I have trust him all my life... I work full time for many ears... I pay all our bills that we accumulate for all the years that we have been together with our money... and I make more money that he does but that is not the issue... all I wanted is for him to tell me and be honest with me but he is not... and now I don't think I can trust him anymore !!! I don't know what to do since I can not trust him anymore...he always tells me before that my 401K and IRA is his money too!!!What to do? please give me advice...is divorce an option?