if you draw up an agreement, you can ask the court to approve it. The it is an order of the court and enforceable.
That said, it seems that you have a bigger problem than the absence of an agreement. If you are worried that he won't return her, and that worry is with good cause, you may need to discuss your situation with counsel to be sure that measures are taken, and proper language is inputted into the agreement, to ensure the safety of your daughter.
This is not legal advice and is not intended to create an attorney-client relationship. You should speak to an attorney for further information.
It is a difficult situation, but you would be wise not to proceed any further without a lawyer on your side.
No information provided in response to these questions can be relied upon in any way without further personally consulting with Attorney Kerrigan and Attorney Kerrigan consulting personally with you regarding your specific legal situation.
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