IMMIGRATION LAW PROFESSOR for 10 years -- LEGAL DISCLAIMER: This answer is offered for informational purposes only. It does not constitute an attorney-client relationship.
To get the green card through your husband you must either show that you entered the US legally, or that you qualify for 245(i). Deferred action does not change that.
You should retain an experienced immigration lawyer, whether myself or one of my colleagues, to review all the facts, advise you, and handle the case.
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Apply for Deferred Action now. You can still adjust to another immigration status if you qualify for it on its own down the line. You should speak to a lawyer.
Best of luck,
Sanjay Paul, Esq.
*Offices in Los Angeles & Central Valley
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As my colleague mentioned, because you entered without inspection (illegally), you will need a waiver of your inadmissibility (245i), before you may adjust status; a grant of deferred inspection does not change that fact; because deferred action does not grant an immigration status, it merely allows you to be lawfully present and gain work authorization.
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