You pay child support until the court tells you that you don't have to pay child support. It's just that simple.
In no way am I offering you legal advice, and in no way has my comment created an attorney-client relationship. You are not to rely upon my note above in any way, but insted need to sit down with counsel and share all relevant facts before receiving fully-informed legal advice. If you want to be completely sure of your rights, you must sit down with an experienced criminal defense attorney to be fully aware of your rights.
Unless your daughter started supporting herself, her dropping out of school is not grounds to terminate your child support. The remainder of your question is difficult to follow, but if there is an outstanding motion seeking entry of $130,000 in child support arrears you should retain an experienced family law attorney to assist you.
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