Father died in May 2010. Will never probated in NJ. Father had 3 natural children and 3 step-children. Step Childen are trying to probate will after a 2 year delay. Father's second wife was exectrix of will but had dementia and died 1 year later August 2011. Step-daughter sent a copy of the pour-over-will which states all things go into the trust. She has refused to show us the trust.