You need to hire an attorney who specializes in inheritance law immediately.
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Unless you have a joint and mutual Will, you can leave your property to whomever you want. However, if you are married, your spouse does have a statutory interest in your estate. Usually, a husband and wife will each have their own wills, leaving all (or most) of their property to each other, and then to a child or children upon the death of the surviving spouse.
If you survive your husband, you can do whatever you want with your assets. The same goes for him if he survives you. If you want to make sure that both of your children are beneficiaries of your estate, you should meet with an attorney to determine your options.
Best of luck to you.
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How the property transfers at death depends greatly on order of death and how the property is held. If someone only owns joint property (such as a bank account in both names), then that property goes to the survivor, regardless of what the will says.
Please consult with a probate lawyer so you can learn what your rights and options are. As mentioned before, there are many factors to consider.
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You should not rely on this answer. You should consult a lawyer so you can tell the lawyer the entire situation and get legal advice that is precisely tailored to your case.