My ex is 2,500 behind and pays less every month. Court orders have come thru to increase child support monthly until he is caught up. He laughs at this and only pays enough to keep him out of jail. He never calls the kids, cancells at the last minute, he only sees them 10 hrs a week because he is always gone on trips to new York or Europe or somewhere else. He is self employed so he shows making less than minimum wage on his taxes and puts all his money under his girlfriends name and account so it wont show on him.The kids cry and beg me not to make them go with him. They are all under 10, and I desperately need financial help. He tells me to go to my mom's when I beg him to pay so I can clothe and feed our babies. My entire income goes to rent and utilities.